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Tantra for the Trans or Nonbinary Experience

A Safe Space to Explore and Heal

Tantra is an ancient practice focused on cultivating presence, intimacy, and a deep connection with your own body. For trans and nonbinary folks, Tantra offers a unique opportunity to explore your identity, embrace your authentic self, and experience profound pleasure and healing.

My sessions are designed to be a judgment-free zone where you can be completely yourself. I am committed to honoring your gender identity and pronouns, and will work with you to create a space that feels supportive and nurturing.

Tantric practice puts us back in the driver’s seat of our life by offering tools to discern our thought patterns, soothe the tension in our bodies, and clear the energy of our spirits. When we work together, I create a space where you can truly let go and then offer you the tools and exercises that make the most sense for where you are at in your practice and daily life.

The goal of our time together is to soothe your whole being and give you the techniques to have your own healing practice at home.

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Here are some reasons that people work with me at Subtle Seed Sanctuary:

  • Finding Balance & Self Love

  • Healing from Sexual/Emotional Trauma

  • Seeking Greater Connection between Body, Mind, & Spirit

  • Reclaiming Spiritual Empowerment

  • Finding One’s Flow

  • Trouble Connecting with the Unseen Realms

  • Chakra Alignment

  • Shamanic Healing

  • Trouble Achieving Orgasm

  • Sexually Disconnected

I am offering sessions at a discounted rate for trans or nonbinary clients in financial need.

Inquire for more info.

Each Tantric Guidance session is catered to you as an individual. We decide what techniques and practices to incorporate based on your intentions and state of mind in the moment. It may include any of the following:

  • Centering & Meditation

  • Intention & Dedication

  • Sacred Imagination

  • Pelvic Openness & Flexibility

  • Self Empowerment

  • Creating Safe Space

  • Balancing Masculine & Feminine Energy

  • Post Traumatic Growth

  • Chakra Initiation & Meditation

  • Body Image Exploration

  • Belly Breath, 3 Part Breath, & more breathwork

  • Cosmic Orgasmic Energy

  • Ejaculation Mastery for Men

  • Orgasmic Flow in Women

  • Sublimation

  • and more

I am offering sessions at a discounted rate for trans or nonbinary clients in financial need. Inquire for more info.

Call me at 828-610-5683 (LOVE)


Tantra In a Nutshell

Tantra is a sweet, sensual, body-based practice of total acceptance and presence. It is an interweaving of divine polarity in all aspects of life. Tantra is founded on an understanding that we are energetic beings with the power to use our most basic energies in ways that keep us vibrant, connected, compassionate, and awake.

The originators of Tantric practice, thousands years ago in the Himalayas, believed that our bodies are a microcosm of the grand design of the universe. In order to truly make sense of anything outside ourselves, first we must understand our own inner workings. These early practitioners believed that liberation from human suffering is possible in this lifetime through presence, ritual, and compassionate connection. Tantra has always been known as a "shortcut" to enlightenment because of its tools to give people sudden realization or understanding.

Today, Tantra is still a path to enlightenment for millions across the globe. In America the practice has been particularly helpful in aiding its students to be more in touch with their bodies, their thoughts, and their partners. True to our country’s nature, Tantra has been added to the melting pot of American spirituality and its many manifestations can be seen in the variety of Tantric healers and practices.

Often it seems the whole day can go by so fast that there isn’t a chance to truly rest. When trying to embark on a spiritual journey within, we can easily get lost and distracted by our own egos, fears, stressors, and chaotic thoughts. To experience ourselves deeper, we all need a guide at some point along the way. But to take someone through our deepest, most mysterious places requires the knowledge that we are safe from judgment and free to have fun and be authentic!

When I welcome you into your Tantric Session, I invite you to shed all of these limitations and let yourself go into a place of peace and expansiveness. We start with tea and a blessing to create a sacred container for the work. Beginning with the breath, we engage your whole being in the soft, graceful dance of cleansing the mind, body, and spirit. You can rest in a space that is sacred, where your body is purified and honored, and your mind is balanced between awareness and relaxation.

A session of Tantric Guidance deals with you as a whole person. Depending on your goals and intentions for our time together, this means that we may be using Tantric exercises to support healing around sexual blocks or traumas.

Sexuality is the most powerful energy in our bodies. Though Tantric philosophy does not see sexual energy itself as good or bad, it can be manifested as both extremes in our life. Because of this it is important to understand and clarify any limitations or challenges to its healthy and full expression.

In relationships, the intensity of sexual energies can be either be the key to a couple's spiritual success or, as many of us know, it can tear two people apart. Having a consistent Tantric practice is immeasurably supportive to long term relationships- whether just beginning or many years in.

Please note, I am just a guide and a healer. It is always my goal to empower you in your own practice rather than to create a relationship where you feel dependent on me to find the peace that we create in sessions. I believe each person has a unique path to becoming his or her own guru, and it is always an honor to witness that evolution.

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What Clients are Saying

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"This gal is so wonderful. She is without a doubt so very skilled and blessed with the gifts. She can and she will help you. She will tell you exactly what you need to hear not what you think you need to hear. And then she will give you guidance. Truly Amazing."

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"Thank you again for bringing safe and effective healing into my life.  I am ever so grateful to you for your wisdom, your sensitivity, your understanding and your guidance.  My world is alive, creative and whole due to your graceful direction. I have more confidence, clarity and freedom.  You have helped me create a balance with my masculine and feminine energies and continue to support my sexual, emotional and spiritual growth."

Woman Hiking Outdoor


"Jess is amazing!! It is always so wonderful to have a private reading with her! Definitely my favorite :) Thank you for such a touching, moving...Simply the most amazing reading!! Given me things to practice and think about with, in everyday life, can't wait to put them into use! I'm so glad I got to share the close to heart questions with you, and that you were able to feel and connect with me! You are such a beautiful person in side and out!"




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